Advice needed please!

[Croco]

I bought a male ringneck for a female ringneck in summer cause I wanted her to have a partner and they dindt get along very well at all! I got the female from a friends friend. She is very tame and I think she has grown up with people since her past owner sad that dove had 3 or 4 owners before.. So the first time they met each other offcourse the male was very interested and began doing coos and laughs and all that stuff but not only did she ignore him she started to attack him. The female is very aggressive and tries to attack him every chance she gets and the male doenst even try to protect himself so I had no choice but to seperate them. It was my fault since I put him in her cage.. They do have their own cages now and they have their cages in different rooms. So last week I decided to move them both to the living room and I have now their cages next to each others. The female didnt like that at all and when I was cleaning their cages I let them both out at the same time. The male was minding his own business walking around when the female started to attack him and I thought crap not again.. but this time he surprised me.. Not only did he defend himself, he even tried to beat the crap out of her so I had to intervene. The problem is I dont know what to do.. should I let thing proceed? He really wants to mate with her and does coos and laughs all the time but now she is just afraid of him.. She hides every moment they are out.. At one point he climbed her and almoste raped her but I intervened since he pulled out a lot of feather from her head.. So please help me!