hello i have 1 male with 2 mates. This male has had eggs with the first female but every time the eggs hatch the male stops going to the nest. this has happened twice were the eggs hatch the both parents left the babies alone and they died. Now the first female had eggs but the male found another female and she had eggs 3 days later. The first female has 2 eggs and the second one has just 1. What should i do and the male doesn't even go to the first female's nest the poor female sits on the eggs all day long.